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Found out, met, tried, didn't manage, refused: the verb shows what happened

Say when you found out, met, tried, managed or refused something, choosing the right verb.

From the scene That day I knew

In short

Knew is a state; found out is the moment you learnt. Met is the first time; didn't manage means you failed.

Your turn

Which one goes with the first time you saw someone?

Options: that night I found out he was brave too · I tried to talk to him · I met him at a party

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the first time you saw someone → I met him at a party

How it works

In the past simple, the choice of verb shows whether you mean a state or a single event.

Good to know

Knew is a state you already had; found out is the moment you learnt it. Knew someone means you were already acquainted; met is the first time.

Good to know

Tried is an attempt, didn't manage to means it failed, and refused means someone said no.

the moment you learnt it that night I found out he was brave too

Elena

I knew he was shy. That night I found out he was brave too.

Yo sabía que era tímido. Esa noche supe que también era valiente.

Your turn

What fills the gap?

I knew he was shy. (blank).

Options: I tried to talk to him · That night I found out he was brave too · I met him at a party

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Elena

I knew he was shy. That night I found out he was brave too.

Yo sabía que era tímido. Esa noche supe que también era valiente.

the first time you saw someone I met him at a party

Elena

With Manolo. I met him at a party, in sixty-four.

Con Manolo. Lo conocí en una fiesta, en el sesenta y cuatro.

Your turn

What fills the gap?

With Manolo. (blank), in sixty-four.

Options: That night I found out he was brave too · I tried to talk to him · I met him at a party

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Elena

With Manolo. I met him at a party, in sixty-four.

Con Manolo. Lo conocí en una fiesta, en el sesenta y cuatro.

an actual attempt I tried to talk to him

Elena

That night I tried to talk to him, but I didn't manage to.

Aquella noche quise hablar con él, pero no pude.

Your turn

What fills the gap?

That night (blank), but I didn't manage to.

Options: I tried to talk to him · That night I found out he was brave too · I met him at a party

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Elena

That night I tried to talk to him, but I didn't manage to.

Aquella noche quise hablar con él, pero no pude.

tried and failed but I didn't manage to

Elena

That night I tried to talk to him, but I didn't manage to.

Aquella noche quise hablar con él, pero no pude.

Your turn

What fills the gap?

That night I tried to talk to him, (blank).

Options: but I didn't manage to · that night I found out he was brave too · I met him at a party

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Elena

That night I tried to talk to him, but I didn't manage to.

Aquella noche quise hablar con él, pero no pude.

said no my mother refused to leave me alone

Elena

My mother refused to leave me alone for a single minute.

Mi madre no quiso dejarme sola ni un minuto.

Your turn

What fills the gap?

(blank) for a single minute.

Options: That night I found out he was brave too · I met him at a party · My mother refused to leave me alone

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Elena

My mother refused to leave me alone for a single minute.

Mi madre no quiso dejarme sola ni un minuto.

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Found out, met, tried, didn't manage, refused: the verb shows what happened
the moment you learnt itthat night I found out he was brave too
the first time you saw someoneI met him at a party
an actual attemptI tried to talk to him
tried and failedbut I didn't manage to
said nomy mother refused to leave me alone
More lines from the story
  • ElenaBy sight, yes. He worked at the bakery.De vista, sí. Trabajaba en la panadería.
  • NuriaYou didn't know him before?¿No lo conocía de antes?

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